Yup, another random topic- let’s run with it and see where it takes us, shall we?
To be honest with you, if you do not know absolutely, for sure, positively that I love you…then chances are I may not.
I have a hard and fast rule. If I love someone I tell them. Period. Life is way to short to hold that as a secret. It is not uncommon to see me hugging and telling my bestest bestie ever, Susie Q, that I love her. I remind others when I miss their face cuz I love their face and everything attached to said face. Tomorrow is a long time away and it ain’t guaranteed so take the time NOW to share how you feel about someone important to you.
I have been known to scream it at the Hubs after a fight.
“I love you, jerkface!”
Just cuz we bicker or fight doesn’t mean my love lessens. Crap happens. Life can get ugly and so can our emotions. It doesn’t mean that my love for these people wanes. It just takes a quick back seat while stupidity drives my emotions for a little while. It’s like being carjacked by the jerk you try to tuck away from the world. You know, Ms. Ugly, who sprouts horns and hates puppies. Yea, we don’t like her.
I am also one of those rare creatures that will apologize AND…take notes here cuz it’s CrAzY…I can and will admit when I am -WRONG-. It doesn’t happen all the time like the Hubs would like, but it does happen. Hey, if my info is wrong and I force fed it to you I will correct it. If I argue a point and find my information is less than accurate, I will correct my stance. If I snapped at you for something out of your control I can and will apologize.
I know, crazy, right?
I am perfect. I am the perfect Ticia. I am perfect in my imperfections. I am perfect in my flaws. I am the perfect me…today. Tomorrow is a whole different story. I am, however, willing to learn and change and grow each day and absorb all it brings. I wasn’t always like this and I am far from where I would like to be. I know I judge to quickly and allow the opinions of others to taint my image of things. I have to find a way to see the world through my own eyes and not the watercolored version provided by the influences around me.
I don’t want to see the world through ‘Rose Colored Glasses’ but it would be nice to see things as they truly are without the tainted perspective of others. I’m learning. I’m trying and some day I may reach that goal, but until then…in case no one has said it to you today –
“I love you. You are awesome. Have a great day!”
Until next time…
Find joy. Be joy. Enjoy.
***Psst…Hey! Hubs…I love you, jerkface! 🙂